Our scripture readings this weekend not only deal with forgiveness and reconciliation but also speak to the importance of relationship. Saint Paul reminds us that we are called to be ministers of reconciliation in the world around us. We are called to help bring healing to damaged relationships, not only in our own lives, but wherever we encounter conflict, injustice, and division.
As ministers of reconciliation, it is important to distinguish between forgiveness and reconciliation as they are two different things entirely. Forgiveness is one sided. Forgiveness involves one person letting go of an offense and does not necessarily involve the healing of a damaged relationship. Forgiveness does not require a response or action from the offending party. Reconciliation, on the other hand, requires an action and a response. Reconciliation is a healing of a damaged relationship where the offended forgives the offender and they together work to repair the damage so they can continue in relationship together.
On Wednesday, we will hold our annual Reconciliation Service, a time for us to help restore and strengthen our relationship with God. We come together to seek forgiveness for the times when we have not lived up to our potential, when we have fallen short of the mark and be reconciled with the Almighty. It is a powerful time for us to not only hear the words of forgiveness but also to participate in our ministry of reconciliation as described by Saint Paul.
This weekend, as we unfold the layers of the parable of the Prodigal Son, let us imagine God embracing us in our weakness and offering love, forgiveness, and mercy. God does not hold grudges, and God freely forgives our trespasses. As ministers of reconciliation, we are called to do the same, and the first step for us is to seek reconciliation with our great God of love.
May God bless you and your loved ones today, tomorrow, and forever more.