If we take the Bible literally (and we all know not to do that, right?), then today we celebrate the moment when three total strangers came uninvited and unannounced and interrupted Mary and Joseph as they were trying to figure out how to be new parents. Fortunately, that never happens to new parents today. (!)
The positive side of the story is that the Magi brought gifts. I’m guessing that Joseph would have preferred a rack of lamb to feed his family instead of frankincense, but it’s the thought that counts, isn’t it? And besides, ‘gifts of gold, lamb and myrrh’ just doesn't have the same ring to it.
But, in spite of being an interruption, the fact that the Magi bothered to come at all and visit the new family is pretty cool. In the face of great difficulty and personal hardship, they made the trek and paid homage to the newborn King. Wouldn’t you love to know what they all talked about? What thoughts did three wise men offer to the family of Joseph, Mary and the baby Jesus? What simple insights did Joseph and Mary offer to their guests? Oh to have a recording of those conversations!
While the Gospel is silent as to when this visit occurs, it appears that Joseph was able to secure a little more appropriate lodging for his family since Matthew refers to the “house” (2:11) that the visitors come to pay homage. All of our Nativity sets notwithstanding, it would appear that the Magi did not have to navigate around any donkey droppings.
The Church has always held that the home is the little Church. It is in the home that faith is first shared and where we all learn about our faith, first and best. And it is in our homes where guests are exposed to that which we believe. When they walk in and see the crucifix on the wall, they know they are in the home of a believer. When they see that Nativity set on the table, they know that this is a family who believes in Jesus. When they hear a prayer before the meal, they understand that this family remembers from whence come their blessings.
It is understandable that we look to the parish to be the center of our faith expression and where we receive the Eucharist. But, in reality, it is in the home where faith begins. It is a daunting task, no doubt. At times, I have done well in sharing my faith. Many other times – not so much. But always I try to remember that there is no way anyone would want to follow me to church, if I cannot express my faith well and properly in my home. Hospitality extended includes, in my home, extending the hand of faith as well. Every Day.